A one night stand can be an amazing experience if you both want the same thing - a fantastic, exciting night to remember and if the chemistry is right and there is enormous sexual attraction and a connection. Every detail will be imprinted in your mind forever and it will be up there with your top ten life experiences. Anyone who has had one of these knows what I am talking about and it will make a great tale one day when you are sitting around in an old people's home waiting for your carer to take you to the loo.
Sadly most one night stands are not like this and leave both parties feeling bad - the girl because she hopes it will turn into a relationship and the guy because he wants to escape as soon as possible but feels a bit guilty looking into her forlorn, pleading eyes.
Do women learn their lesson? Do they wake up after the first failure of a one night stand and vow - never again? No they do not. They keep doing the same thing and keep getting the same result - then they wonder why they can't meet a decent guy and have a loving, committed relationship.
Sometimes they give up on love. they close themselves down and avoid men completely and vow that they don't need or want a man in their life.
Why on earth do women do this to themselves? Because they are looking for love in all the wrong places. Because they mistake sexual attraction for love. Because they mistake infatuation for love. Because they are needy. Because they are lonely.
Enough. We all need to get our hankies out. Not because you are lonely and needy but because you cannot see what is right in front of your nose and the tragedy of wasting your amazing life on such losers - and let's face it - guys who use women for sex are losers - if they are that desperate they can hook up with a prostitute.
Where is this love? Inside. Want to wake up every day with an excited feeling like a child at Christmas? Want to end your dependency on attention from unsuitable men? Want to feel fabulous?
I can help you with this.
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