Tuesday, 24 November 2015

Choose - 10 squats and 10 lunges a day



Aiming to get fit can feel like an enormous insurmountable goal. If you are overweight and lackluster about exercise then the thought of running every day is akin to participating in a marathon. Unobtainable. What if there were an easier way? What if you could reach your goal by taking small steps. What if you simply decided to do ten squats and 10 lunges a day? Is that possible? Is that achievable even in the busiest schedule? Can you spare 10 minutes every morning before you even brush your teeth? Picture yourself doing it - every day. This is based on the Japanese philosophy - Kaizen - continuous improvement. what it produces is big results over time. Continuous small changes accumulated over time result in a big improvement.

Even if you do not move on to do more exercise in the future - and you will because once you are in the habit and start to get fit you will want to do more and will seek out further ways to improve.So even if you do not do more, 10 squats and 10 lunges a day will have an impact on your health, fitness and looks. Do it for 30 days and see if you notice a change in your energy, vitality and physique. Then another 30 days. Then another. 


Nobody is successful by accident. It is as a result of the choices they made and the actions they took. do not be overwhelmed by the enormity of the task ahead and then choose to do nothing. Instead, take one small step at a time. A habit will then form. We are all creatures of habit. what we do every day is what we are. You can change that little by little. Do not aim for  perfection straight off and then collapse in despair as your ideal is out of reach. No athlete just turned up and won on the field. They won by their practise. Their dedication and resolve and their daily habits.


Everything you do in your life is a choice. Whether you are conscious of your decisions or simply drift through life, you do make them. From the moment you awake to the time you fall off to sleep you are making choices all day long. You choose what to eat and where to go, who to talk to and what to say. You choose whether to be gracious and friendly, rude and curt, dismissive, playful, this is you choosing to be you. People will judge who you are based on your behaviour. If you are overweight it is not by accident. It is through choice. Yours. If you choose not to exercise you choose not to operate your body at it's best. It is that simple. Take responsibility for who you are. Now, if you don't like it make a choice to change it. Not easy but simple. Make the choice today.

Thursday, 30 April 2015

How to deal with Stress - You will love this...




1. Focus on one thing at a time.

A busy mind creates stress. Allow space to deal with just one thing. Accept the laws of physics - you cannot do more than one thing at once so why think about more than one thing?

2. Schedule

What gets scheduled gets done. Simple. Nobody accidentally made a million or became an Olympian but lots of people miss family birthdays and are late with their tax returns.

3. Give yourself an amnesty.

Silence your inner critic and hand over what you can't face to someone else. You know those tasks that are gathering mould - maybe you have left something because you are not sure of the next step... you now find it overwhelming to start.  Hand it over and take someone else's nightmare  in return. You will have no emotion attached to their problem and will be able to complete the task remarkably quickly.  Ditto them with yours.

4. Habit

Order creates calm. Tidy every day. Exercise every day - for 5 mins.
Habits remove the need for decision making and willpower which allows you to reserve your energy for what needs doing.

5. Deal with one nightmare a day.

If you have 30 things you don't want to do - in a month you will be free... new nightmares crop up but they can go to the back of the queue...

6. Accept that life happens for you and don't try to control outcomes or react emotionally to setbacks.

7. Deal with everything with love.

8. Take regular mini breaks and treats - spoil yourself when you are under pressure.
Latte, facebook for 10 minutes, cupcake, read vogue...

9. Develop an attitude of gratitude.

10. Traverse the earth with grace.

Not charm, not arrogance, not superiority, not fear, not jealousy, not resentment but grace. You will feel humble and blessed and compassion for all living things.