Men's Hot and Crazy List for Women

This video is funny - do not take offence . It gives an insight into how a lot of men select women - not how women truly are.

Men prefer a good looking woman who is emotionally stable. They do not seek drama and emotional outpourings.  They are very visually stimulated so given this is how they are wired biologically we must stop lamenting their superficiality. They also do not like to spend time focusing on where they are at emotionally. They would like to just enjoy and not spend a lot of time analyzing their feelings. However - they miss the point that it can often be their behavior which ignites the emotional drama. How many times have you seen a man fall apart emotionally when the woman he loves leaves him? They can express they just choose not to.

Women do the same thing but list men on hot and money. I would give him 3 for hot.. any women above a 5 on the hot list who dates him must think he scores above an 8 for money..

Here's the thing - 80% of women are hot and only 20% of men - Paretto's rule applies to this as well as everything else. Which is why soo many women end up with men for their money.  Then the men think the women have gone crazy... but they are not they are just expressing their disappointment.

All connections are a trade - who are we to judge others? It is rare indeed to have equality -Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie are both famous, rich and beautiful so this should be a fabulous match of like minded spirits but what else have they got a connection with? Hopefully everything.

My advice to women:

1. Forget about finding a man to make you happy.  He can't. Only you can make you happy.
2. Set boundaries - what behavior are you prepared to put up with?
3. Work out what you want from the connection.
4.  Work out what you need in your life right now.  If it is a loving committed relationship forget the players - if it is a fling - carry on!
5. What do you bring to the table? Where are you on the crazy hot list?