The Trouble with Men...

A woman meets a man and what does she think?  Great he is just perfect the way he is... No...  she thinks...

If he got promoted...

If he watched less sport...

If he played less computer games...

If he got rid of his childish ways...

If he stopped eating like a pig...

If he liked shopping...

If he stopped gambling, smoking, drinking...

If, if, if...

Does she tell a guy this? NO WAY! She is too busy playing Stepford Wives. He thinks he's hooked up with a chick that loves action movies and his leery mates, is a gourmet chef and is wild in the bedroom.

Then he marries his dream woman...

Sadly she then turns into herself and starts working on him to change any or all of the above.  He needs to clean house, watch chick flicks, go on a diet, take her shopping, only have sex when there is a full moon and with the lights out or worse - when she is ovulating.

I almost feel sorry for men.

Here's what you can change about men -

1. Their location - you can probably get him to move house, especially if he is still living with his mum or in a shared lad's hovel, sorry pad.

2. Their look - you can buy him clothes and leave them outside the shower for him to grab and put on.

Here's what you can't change about men:

1. Everything else.

Why do women try to recycle men?  Because they have a fantasy Prince in their head and they are brought up on Disney and expect a man to solve all their problems. Lots of women don't like making decisions - they want a man to look after them but they want him to look after them in the way they want not the way he sees it.

When infatuation wears off, if you do not love a man the way he is - leave him and spare you both a lot of pain and aggravation.

WHAT IS THE SOLUTION?

Be honest with men and yourself. Stop trying to be someone you are not just to catch a man - I promise you he isn't worth it and you are worth so much more than that.  Do not make catching a man your goal - make being happy your goal.

Get happy on your own.  Take responsibility for your own life.  Only have a man in your life who makes you feel good. Only then will you have the space to give love.