Men to avoid
Does he love me?
Do you love yourself?
What is Love?
When a man loves a woman
Extracts from the book...
IF A MAN SAYS,
HE IS TOO BUSY,
HE IS TOO SHY,
IT IS TOO EARLY
TOO…
THESE ARE ALL EXCUSES INSTEAD
OF SAYING…
I DON’T WANT ANYMORE THAN WE
HAVE RIGHT NOW
IF YOU DATE A MAN WHO IS IN A
RELATIONSHIP
WITH SOMEONE ELSE
DO NOT EXPECT HIM
TO BE FAITHFUL TO YOU…
EVER
Some of the pain women go through in the name of love is so unnecessary. If you spend even one more minute waiting for a guy to call that is a minute of your precious life that you will never get back. If you are looking for love then it is important to look in the right places. There are a lot of frogs out there - and it is OK to kiss a few frogs maybe, but don't take it any further than that.
If something does not add up then trust your intuition. If he does not introduce you to his friends or family there is a reason he wants to keep you out of the rest of his life. Do not listen to this " I value the time you and I spend together so much and I do not want to share you with anyone else".
True story - I know of a lady who dated a guy for 2 years, holidayed with him, introduced him to all her friends and family, spent New Year with him, and then found out - after 2 years - that he was still living with his wife. How devastating is that? Were there any clues? Plenty. If you ignore your intuition you are setting yourself up for pain and loss. Or as my gorgeous lorry driver cousin said to me when I told him I was breaking up with a guy whom he did not like:
"Give me his address and phone number and I will introduce him to a life of pain..." Fortunately such retribution was not necessary but do not put yourself in a situation where your male relatives need to come to your rescue.

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